No one in her circle speaks about him when they are on the outs and she keeps her circle and team very small. "I moved in with my girlfriend when I was 18 he'd reveal. Hailey Baldwin, 21, on July7, which happened after one month of officially dating, and brief flings in 20To compare, Selena and Justin were dating on and off-again for a whopping span of seven years, from. . "Started my own life with her. (A report came out that, bieber only dated Baskin Champion this spring to make her jealous, so this isn't the first time that possibility has been floated.) But Gomez's not buying. At the same time, she knows Justin very well and knows he is impulsive and makes emotional decisions. I don't want to feel like the girl I love is an added responsibility." This wasn't about being free to party with groupies, he insisted, but rather a different, and dare we say more mature, way of approaching a relationship. . "Everybody knows that at a certain point in time that turned into something else, but that just happens when you're 18,. Plus she always thinks how it will be perceived to be with someone in the outside world. Her identity was. It was what it was.". There was no hostile vibe as much as there was the clear impression Gomez did not feel like answering any questions then. (Bieber and Baldwin got engaged after dating for a month, and reports have come out suggesting, bieber had been planning to propose the entire couple weeks they were together.). It's said she's hoping they don't actually marry (Image: Robert O'neil / m). Still, says another source, "Justin is happier than ever and wants to be with Hailey." (As for Gomez, their most recent split taught her once and for all that Bieber is not what her heart wants.